Posts Tagged ‘nursing’

pump free

// October 11th, 2009 // 1 Comment » // Mariah, Motherhood, Rachel

and proud to be.

i'm not in love with breastfeeding, but will continue to nurse twice a day.

when i was pregnant, my breastfeeding goal was 1 year. that’s what everyone recommended, so i went with it. once i started breastfeeding, i changed my goal to 6 months. the first two weeks were rough and sometimes painful, and then probably every two weeks i had a few days where i just wanted to have a little more freedom. i learned i’m not a mom who is in love with breastfeeding. yes, i’ll miss it when i’m done i’m sure, but i don’t love it. i chose to breastfeed because of the health benefits and the financial benefits. (more…)

turning point

// July 6th, 2009 // No Comments » // Motherhood, Rachel

three and a half months seemed to bring about lots of changes in both myself and mariah.  i don’t know if it’s such a big “turning point” for everyone, but it sure seems to be for me.

what i love about three and a half months:

for mariah -

she can support her own head well: she’s had a really strong neck from the beginning, but probably right at three months she got the hang of holding it for long periods of time.  it makes carrying her much easier.

she can roll over both ways: which means when she flips to her stomach, instead of complaining about it, she can change it herself.  most things i’ve read put babies at 5 months before they can go both ways – guess we have a gal ahead of the curve!

she loves to squeal and talk:  this makes the day delightful.  but of course leads to the next one… (more…)

dairy free?

// June 29th, 2009 // 2 Comments » // Motherhood

mariah’s been a pretty gassy baby from the start.  within the first few weeks, she was having gas pains that made her scream and pump her legs like crazy.  we thought the culprit was peanut butter, so stopped eating it.  that was hard because that’s a quick and easy go-to for lunches.

things eased up for a bit, but while in italy it got really bad in the evenings and in the middle of the night and the spit up was out of control during the day!  it broke my heart to see her scream at night.  we burped her, pumped her legs and tried our best to soothe her.  we also spent our days mopping up what seemed like full feedings she’d returned to us.

i knew it had to be something in my diet, and the change in countries and eating habits had to be the culprit.  i was eating a TON of cheese, salami, chocolate and fresh greens all of which are said to be bad for gas.  when we returned home everything seemed to die down – but it didn’t last long.

i suspected dairy was the culprit as i kept reading it seems to be the case most often.  so i limited my dairy intake for a few days which seemed to help.  after having pizza for lunch the past two days, the spit up increased again.  but it could be just a coincidence.

i need to actually go dairy free for 2-4 weeks to get it completly out of my system and then try introducing it slowly to see what her reaction is.  *sigh* that’s so hard for me – i LOVE my milk and get my protein from cheese, yogurt, and cottage cheese.

if dairy truly is the reason for the gas, it will be worth it. i mean i won’t be breastfeeding forever.  i can have my cheese all i want in nine months.  i’m going to limit the dairy as much as possible, but i don’t know if i can remove it completly – it could be a bit tricky. so here i go….updates to come.

breastaurants

// May 11th, 2009 // No Comments » // Motherhood, Rachel

i love all of the benefits of breastfeeding, and hope to do it for a year, but when people say it’s convenient i’m not too sure i agree with them.  over the past seven weeks, i’ve had several options when it comes to being gone from the house:

  • time the feeding and outing just right. feed her before heading out the door then return within three hours of the time the feeding began.  which usually gives me around 2 1/2 hours.
  • bring a bottle of expressed milk with me.  this usually works when going to someones house where i can go pump right after i feed her.  but i might as well have just gone to that room to feed her in the first place.  when out elsewhere it’s hard to find a way to heat the bottle and waiting to pump when we return home sometimes interferes with the next feeding.
  • nurse in public.  i haven’t tried this one yet still working on the skills it takes to juggle a baby, remove/pull up clothing all while hiding under a blanket.  no, i’m not comfortable enough to fore-go the covering. maybe i need to get one of those sweet covers that ties around your neck.
  • find a breastaurant.  this is my preferred choice and the main focus of this blog given my recent experience.

first let me say, the term breastaurant came from none other than my church bulletin!  it’s simply a more exciting name for a nursing lounge. (more…)